Michelle
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Joined: June 2005
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Post by Michelle on Jun 8, 2005 21:03:17 GMT -7
I have been to see this poor bird 3 times so far. She is a case of a teenager getting a bird doing a great job raising it and then going away to colage and no longer having a place for it in her life. The mother is scared to death of this poor bird, she takes it out of cage with leather gloves. Today when I went over she asked if I wanted the bird. I have always wanted a Gray since I was a teenager myself, I just was waiting for my second child,a 5 year old daughter to get a older. I took the bird out of her cage with my bare hands. She did bite but it was not hard and once she know that I was not scared she stopped. She was scared though. I got her out and she went right under my chin before I could stop her and started bagging food like a baby.It broke my heart. She is heathy but mently upset. I am trying to find some good sites to help me figure out the best ways to work with her. I still do not know if the family will go through with letting her come with me. I hope it will work out with my young girl. We have lots of pets and she knows how to be around scared animals. Any help you can give would be great. Thank you, Michelle
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Post by Jane on Jun 11, 2005 1:48:04 GMT -7
I was replying to this when the forum went down so here goes again! This bird seems to have taken to you and in the current circumstances it would seem a good option if the family do let you have her. The wearing of gloves can be terrifying to a Grey and if the mother is scared of the bird, she will pick this up and it will make her more unsettled. Greys need stability and a lot of attention but if you can offer her this then I would say go for it.
Jane
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gandolf
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Post by gandolf on Jun 15, 2005 21:09:03 GMT -7
Just take her home and love her forever! It's not rocket science, seams you have a good start and it looks like she already has you!
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Post by spookyhurst on Jun 15, 2005 23:59:10 GMT -7
Something similar happened to my bird. I had a conure for 10 years (pictured in my avatar), and then moved out of state to go to college. My plans were to move my bird down with me in sixth months. However, I was gone less than a month when my parents started pressuring me to get rid of him, saying he was lonely and they had found someone that would take him. I ended up reluctantly giving him up. What a terrible mistake! I ended up back home only 4 months after I had left due to health problems. I miss my Jesse terribly, and wish my parents would have helped me out and cared for him those four months (he was a good bird, and very easy to care for). I worry about him all the time, and wonder if his new owners are taking proper care of him. I still have Jesse's picture on the wall and talk about him everyday (much to my parents dismay).
I hope you're able to get this poor bird Michelle, but if her owner is anything like me, she'll regret giving her bird up forever.
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